Roots...

They say that a tree's root system is about as big as it's top. As it grows up, it grows down. It creates hight as it creates depth.

As people, how does this compare? Do we deepen as we grow up? As we mature, do our roots reflect our maturity?

As far as I know, roots are what nourishes a tree. Roots are also a foundation of strength. Without roots, the tree would starve and wither. Without roots, the tree would fall over easily. I imagine the tree uses it's roots to harmonize itself with the earth it sits in, gathering information.

The way I see the comparison between a trees roots and the depth of a person is like this: When a person has depth, there is way more to them than what is on the outside. They have an inner strength that keeps them from getting tossed about in life's storms. There is an inner knowing an experience of connection to something greater. And they use this connection to feed their being.

So what creates depth in people? There are countless everyday opportunities to create depth. Every day life lessons. The sort that just seem to keep happening until the lesson is learned. Or great tragedies. Seeing them or experiencing them. Illnesses and near fatal occurrences are also opportunities for creating depth. Reading and listening to great teachers is also a possible way. Cultivating compassion. Getting interested in what else is out there. Becoming curious about this thing called life. The age old question, 'Why are we here?'. Instead of looking for answers, becoming eager for more questions. Opening our hearts. For each person it's different.

Have you ever looked into someone's eyes and seen their depth? Felt their deep strength?

Look into your own eyes and see yours own. It is there. And it always has been. Feel your roots stretching. Nourish yourself.

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